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Dulquer Salmaan
In November 2025, Dulquer Salmaan walked into a college auditorium for what was supposed to be a simple “town hall”.
Two hours later, the internet was in tears, students were hugging each other, and the clip became the most wholesome thing online all year.
Here are the 16 moments and lessons that broke (and healed) us.
1. Your Biggest Fear Is Actually Your Compass
“My biggest fear in life was failure… I had nightmares I would turn 40 and regret not trying.” He ran from acting for years because he was terrified of not matching his father’s legacy. Lesson: The thing that scares you most is usually the thing you are born to do.
2. Getting Kicked Out Of The Friend Group Was The Best Thing That Ever Happened To Him
Age 12–13. Friends sat him down: “We do not want to be friends with you anymore. You are out.” His reaction? “Thank God they did, or I would have no personality today.” That rejection turned a bratty kid into the kindest man in Indian cinema.
3. Cry, Man. Just Cry.
“I cried in the bathroom when a film I produced flopped. I cried when my daughter was born. My dad and I cried together watching Mufasa die.” Being a man is not measured by the tears you do not shed; it is measured by the heart big enough to produce them.
4. The Silver Spoon Is Heavier Than You Think
“I have MORE responsibility, not less. I have zero excuse to do a bad film, no house to build, no sister’s wedding to fund.” Privilege = sky-high standards.
5. Worst-Day Survival Hack
Hardest day ever? “Target lock: tonight I will be under warm covers in a comfy bed.” Simple. Genius. We are all stealing this.
6. Ego Is Like Math, He Hates It
“Self-respect, yes. Thinking you are better than everyone? No. No single person makes a film.” Even the star knows he is not above the audience or the spot boy.
7. Love Advice In The Situationship Era
“Why create mess and clutter? One person you will love AND fight with is easier than ten.” You are going to fight anyway, pick who is worth the fight.
8. His Mom Is Pure Magic (Tissues Required)
She waited at the airport in a sari twice a year when he was in the US. Still insists her biryani has zero calories. He gets teary every single time he talks about her.
9. Future Message To His Daughter
“I want her to know this is why Daddy is away sometimes, because I am trying to make amazing cinema.” Father-of-the-century award already locked.
10. Your 20s Are A Luxury, Enjoy The Not-Knowing
“It is the only time you have the privilege of not knowing who you will marry or where life will take you.” Stop stressing about the plan.
11. Passion First, Money Follows
“I never chase 100-200-500 crores. Find something you love, even if it is just a hobby, and you do a 9-to-5 to pay bills.” Sanity > salary.
12. Toxic Friends? Delete Immediately
“You only need five real friends. If someone is negative, cut them out. Best thing you will ever do for your soul.” No explanation needed.
13. Who Wins Arguments At Home?
“Amal. Life is easier that way.” Rule #1 in the Salmaan household: Never carry a fight into the next day. Morning reset. Marriage goals achieved.
14. Kindness Is The Ultimate Cheat Code
“Anyone can be kind. It takes zero effort, just a mindset.” The one quality he tries to put forward and the one he loves most in people.
15. The Leap Is Scarier Than The Landing
He cried, telling Mammootty he wanted to act. Dad’s reply: “I cannot act for you. If you are bad, they will be mean to you BECAUSE you are my son.” That terrifying conversation gave him more joy than any blockbuster ever did.
16. When A Student Called The 42-Year-Old Superstar “Super Cute”
Student: “To be honest, you are looking super cute, sir.” DQ: “I am 42… the word cute is starting to hurt a little.” We are still laughing (and swooning).
Conclusion
If you watch only one celebrity interaction, make it this town hall.
It is not an interview; it is a hug from a stranger who somehow knows exactly what you needed to hear today.
Which lesson hit you the hardest?
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Which lesson wrecked you the most?
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